About Me


About Me

My name is Simon and I am a genuine, mature, straight, English, professional male dominant disciplinarian master, spanking therapy life coach mentor, spanking practitioner, assertive authority figure and professional administrator of corporal punishment aged in my 50's who administers a wide range of corporal punishment spanking discipline services fulfilling spanking needs for discerning liberated ladies, adult women and my female clients.

I am mature male dominant disciplinarian master aged in my 50's

You will always address me as Sir during the administration of your spanking discipline and when I administer corporal punishment.

You may address me with my real name Simon whenever we speak on the phone or via text and email communication.

Simon is actually my real name and I choose not to hide behind a pseudonym or made-up name / title.

I suppose that I could have gone with Sir Simon, Strict Simon or even Master Simon when promoting my professional spanking services, but there you go and I just prefer to be straight Simon or straight-forward Simon.

I am a mature, English, straight, professional, male dominant disciplinarian, master, mentor, spanking therapist, spanking life coach, educator, spanking practitioner and an assertive authority figure who administers authentic corporal punishment spanking discipline, domestic discipline, motivational spanking, spanking for accountability, therapeutic spanking, spanking therapy, mild BDSM and erotic sensual spanking services fulfilling spanking needs, desires and fantasies for ladies and my female clientele.

Although I use the terms "assertive authority figure" "dominant disciplinarian" "masterful" and "strict master" and other similar descriptive terms with reference to my own professional spanking services for women, I am basically a regular, normal, charming guy and a mature respectable charismatic man, who is in fact just like you with a pleasing, caring nature who has a fascination, interest and passion for traditional corporal punishment spanking discipline combined with the same intrigue in many different aspects of the administration of corporal punishment in various forms and with the same similar kink / fetish as yourself for many different aspects of spanking discipline or erotic sensual kinky sexy spankings / floggings with some BDSM discipline and light restraint with power-play and role-play.

There is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of with wanting to indulge in fulfilling your innermost, secret spanking kin and spanking fantasy fetish and there is no embarrassment in wanting to escape to indulge your playful nature with some play-time with being spanked and disciplined if your interest is piqued with the authentic administration of corporal punishment spanking discipline as your favourite pastime.

I further assure you that you are not alone in wanting to act on, act out or to play out your innermost interest, intrigue, thoughts, cravings, longings, kink, fetish and desires to fulfil your secret spanking needs by booking the select services of a professional male dominant disciplinarian who is more than happy, capable and able to help your fulful your interest in various different aspects of corporal punishment and to indulge your spanking desires to help you with your need and desire to be spanked in a safe, secure domestic setting with some realistic psychodrama and drama-therapy.

My main interest and passion is in traditional, authentic administrations of corporal punishment spanking discipline, domestic spanking discipline and OTK spankings or erotic spanking sessions with some impact play, kink / kinky fun and mild BDSM, so I am NOT interested in any forms or any aspect of hardcore BDSM, S/M bondage nor am I a sadist nterested in any forms of sadism, pain, humiliation, verbal humiliation, strange unusual kinks or fetish.

Please note that I do NOT condone spanking children or minors and believe spanking play, spanking role-play and administrations of corporal punishment should only happen between consenting adults.

I provide a wide range of spanking services tailored to suit your own individual spanking needs.

If you are a woman who is seeking a charming, charismatic, confident, highly intelligent, strict, firm but fair, dominant, mature, masculine, masterful man to give you a good, sound spanking and to administer corporal punishment with warmth, patience, understanding and empathy to fulfil your spanking needs, cravings and desires, then you need look no further as you have now found the right person to discipline and an appropriate, suitable professional male disciplinarian to spank you.

I understand that many women need, crave and desire to have corporal punishment in their lives and to feel that their spanking needs are being met by a strict, dominant, yet compassionate, undertanding, patient, experienced, mature male disciplinarian.

I administer professional corporal punishment spanking discipline services for women with a therapeutic approach and I give spankings for ladies with a great deal of empathy, compassion, warmth and understanding.

I am a a naturally alpha dominant male and I have always been a firm believer in traditional, old fashioned methods of discipline and the need for structure, rules and authority with the use of corporal punishment.

I am a true, genuine believer in the formal administration of corporal punishment, but I am also a very caring, protective, understanding man and I will always assume control in a spanking session offering guidance, protection and direction giving my female clientele a safe, secure space to explore their interest in spanking discipline in complete confidence.

You may be a lady who wants to experience the formality, tradition and reality of corporal punishment spanking discipline within a safe and respectful scene or a woman who needs to be instructed to bend over for the administration of corporal punishment to be administered in a domestic setting for a formal whack and swish of the cane with a caning as you are caned, the swing and sting of the strap with a strapping / flogging as you are strapped and flogged, strokes of the slipper with a slippering as you are slippered or bending over to receive an over the knee spanking as your punishment as you are soundly spanked.

I combine the anticipation, preapration, lecture ( with a good talking to or telling off) and the mental stimulation of a spanking where there is the feeling of genuine authenticity, reality and mental stimilation / stimulus. 

I adapt role-play scenes that always suit your own individual needs, longings and desires with a bespoke spanking service and this could possibly be a school-spanking scence, a paternal / familial domestic spanking scene or an erotic sensual spanking scenario.

You are a lady with great expectations and I shall help you fulfil your spanking needs as your chosen guide and mentor.

Although I make use of the word / term "master" and I use the phrase "strict dominant master", I usually refer to myself as a disciplinarian and perhaps prefer the term "male dominant disciplinarian" with referenece to my own spanking servcies for women.

Male disciplinarian, spanking therapist and spanking life coach / mentor is also applicable for ladies seeking a more therapeutic and holistc approach to spanking discipline.

The word or descriptive term master would be more applicable if a lady is booking me to administer erotic sensual spankings.

I reitierate that you will always address me as Sir during the administration of your spanking discipline and when I administer corporal punishment, however you may address me with my real name Simon whenever we speak on the phone or via text and email communication.

I once again reiterate that Simon is actually my real name and I choose not to hide behind a pseudonym or made-up name / title as a further assurance.

If you are now curious, intrigued and tempted to satisfy your curiosity and to explore your own personal interest in corporal punishment spanking discipline and to find out more about my professional spanking services for women, then let me be your guide / mentor to tempt you further to enable you now fulfil your spanking fantasy needs, cravings and desires to help you turn your innermost secret longing and dreams into reality.

If you genuinely feel that you are in need of corporal punishment and regular spankings have been missing from your life thus far, then look no further and you can have the courage and confidence to read more and to perhaps even make contact with me with no obligation to make an appointment booking.

You can now feel confident enough to explore your own interest in spanking in more depth with a suitable male disciplinarian who can be your professional guide and mentor taking you on a new journey of exploration and discovery.

You may have thought about spanking from a very early age and for as long as you can remember, but without realising why these thoughts have been with you for all this time and this is where I can help you to now finally fulfil and understand your need to be spanked whether it be a more deep-rooted, personal, psychological need to be spanked, disciplined and punished to receive corporal punishment for your own personal reasons or you simply wish to be spanked to enjoy the kinky sexual eroticism of pain and pleasure coupled with the sexy aspect of erotic sensual spanking to help satisfy your craving and spanking desire as a form of kink, domination and fun fantasy fetish fulfillment.

You may have some prior experience and you know exactly why you enjoy being spanked, why you need to be spanked or you know exactly why you like regular spanking sessions in your life.

There are SO many different aspects, dynamics and elements attached to spanking and coupled with my own interests and passion for corporal punishment, I can help to discover, enjoy and to explore the type or style of spanking discipline that intrigues and interests you the most in more depth or if you are a complete novice with no prior experience, then I can be your guide and mentor.

So many people and professional disciplinarians including myself used to compartmentalise spanking into definitive segments, however over the years we have all realised that there can be so many different thoughts, styles and aspects of spanking discipline.

As my own personal and professional experience increased and grew over the years, I experimented more and more in my own personal life as well as my professional life when contacted by women seeking my professional spanking services via my spanking website who would bring new suggestions, dynamics and ideas to the equation which I would take on board and then suggest within my website with the services that I would then offer and provide.

Professional Mature Male Dominant Disciplinarian, Strict Spanking Master, Kink- Aware Spanking Therapist Life Coach Mentor, Spanking Practitioner & Assertive Authority Figure for Adult Women 

Honesty is the best policy in life and I am a mature male dominant disciplinarian aged in my 50's, however I am often told that I look younger, but that of course is in the eye of the beholder and after all, age and time is an abstract concept.

I just wanted to clarify my actual age and to be honest from the outset to avoid any possible confusion or misunderstanding, so I shall leave it up to you to consider if my current age is appropriate / suitable for your own personal preferences.

I have been providing professional spanking services for women and my regular female clients since 2004 until the present day and I am always very professional in my attentive approach to spanking with a vast wealth of experience.

I never use any forms of social media or online forums including Facebook, Instagram and Twitter either using my real name or even a pseudonym, so the only platform that you will find my details online is within my own varying vocational websites.

I am totally "non-scene" so to speak and I do NOT attend organised spanking parties, spanking clubs or take part in any other similar spanking scenarios.

I am considered to be articulate, caring, charming, charismatic, compassionate, confident yet very modest even with an assured air of confidence, conscientious, creative, cultured, eloquent, highly intelligent, friendly, reliable, genuine, generous, giving and totally approachable with a positive outlook on life, terrific sense of fun and humour, joie de vivre and a pleasing personality with sparkling effervescence.

I am always very sensitive and attentive to your own spanking needs paying attention to detail with sympathy and understanding.

I am a very self-motivated individual with a professional attitude and considered to have a pleasing, positive, personality with effervescent energy and an outgoing, assured air of confidence, yet there is also a "yin and yang" dichotomy with me, as I am also very down-to-earth, chilled out, introspective, contemplative in thought and relaxed in nature.

I am 5' 11" tall in height with a 32* waist and I have blue / green eyes.

I am considered to be ruggedly handsome, very articulate, caring, charming, charismatic, confident, conscientious, considerate, eloquent, highly intelligent, imaginative with an instinctively assertive, naturally dominant nature.

I do not drink, smoke or take any drugs preferring to maintain and promote a healthy lifestyle as I genuinely enjoy keeping fit and healthy.

I truly believe in the maxim / saying that a healthy body leads to a healthy mind.

Please be assured that I am NOT interested in any forms or any aspect of hardcore BDSM, S/M bondage nor am I a sadist or similar interested in any forms of sadism, pain, humiliation, verbal humiliation, strange, unusual kinks or fetish.

I am a genuine guy and normal man with an assertive, dominant nature who just has an interest in corporal punishment spanking discipline and administering spanking services for women in need of strict discipline.

You can read more about my spanking services for women and types of spanking discipline that I offer herewith on the Home Page and within the respective links within the header section.

I offer and provide a very discreet, confidential, safe, secure, professional spanking service for women, my existing established female clientele and discerning ladies seeking corporal punishment spanking discipline.

You may choose to view me as your dominant disciplinarian, authority figure, strict master, headmaster, spanking mentor, spanking life coach, spanking therapist or a strong, confident, masculine man administering your corporal punishment spanking discipline.

I am always friendly, totally approachable, very understanding with patience and sympathetic to your all spanking needs.

I will guide you through your corporal punishment spanking discipline spanking sessions with patience, understanding and empathy with assurances of a duty of care, discretion, confidentiality, safety and security always respecting and observing your personal boundaries and limits in safe, secure space.

I always like to keep my own imaginative, innovative ideas and spanking concepts totally original with my own vast wealth of experience in administering corporal punishment and spanking discipline exclusively for women.

My own original imaginative innovative creative concept

I never, ever visit or view any other websites that may feature another male dominant disciplinarian master or even a female disciplinarian mistress who may also offer spanking services for women.

This statement is totally true, thus keeping my own imagination, conceptual ideas, content, photographs, text, videos and website design honest, original, innovative or true to my own imaginative ideals and concepts.

Many women who make contact with myself having conducted their own research or unknowingly doing market research on my behalf often inform me that others have copied my own innovative ideas or taken some of my own creative concepts passing them off as their own, but as long as the text from my own website is not cut / pasted or my photographs are not being used on another website, then I very flattered / philosophical about this and my attitude is very generous as "imitation is the best form of flattery".

My own website is constantly evolving and continues to be a work in progress.

I realise that my websites may now be looking slightly somewhat dated as I am still using an outdated template that I first used back in 2015 (I had used another web editor template since 2004 before that!) and I am fully aware that there are more modern and up-to-date templates available within my own website editor, however even though I have thought about updating my varying vocational website using more modern designs in recent months, the time that it would take to start over and re-create new websites would take far too long and in any case I am still taking new bookings from new clients all the time, so I have just decided to leave well alone and not to "reinvent the wheel" as it were as I am continuing to do so well with new enquiries and subsequent bookings on a very regular, daily basis and all I want is for women to read about my services / to view my photographic images which they are able to do perfectly well using my current website design.

The fact that I am still using an older template would also give some credence to the fact that I have been offering / provding all my varying vocational services for quite some time until the present day, thus giving you more confidence to book me.

Why I still continue to provide spanking services for women in this current time of sexual respect / political correctness, equality & with safety concerns towards the general well-being of women

I would like to state for the record that I have, always had and always will have total respect for all women.

I would also like to state for the record that I absolutely abhor any physical abuse, domestic violence, cowardly acts of violence / abuse, disrespect, sexual abuse, control, controlling coercive behaviour or emotional abuse directed towards women.

I detest any form of violence towards women and I find abuse towrds women on any level totally abhorrent.

I am simply offering / providing a service that many women desire, want and crave in their lives always administered in a safe, secure setting with total respect for their submission and submissive nature when receiving corporal punishment spanking discipline.

The fact that I offer / provide a professional spanking service for women and the fact that I administer corporal punishment spanking discipline has nothing to do with "getting back at women", any childhood trauma issues, personal psychological issues with women or taking any form of revenge against women.

I even go out of my way within my massage / spanking websites to emphasise / stress how much I respect women always observing a strict moral code of conduct and duty of care towards the safety and security of women during their time spent with me for either my massage and / or my spanking services.

I state and reiterate throughout my websites how much emphasis is placed on observing the safety / security of women with personal boundaries, limits and comfort zones when ladies book my varying vocational services.

I have admittedly struggled with my conscience in recent months as to whether I should continue to offer / provide my professional spanking services and with this in mind, I did make contact with some of my regular clients who then subsequently all assured me that I am doing the "right thing" by continuing to provide my spanking services.

There are many women of all ages who do wish to be dominated by a masculine man and to be spanked, punished or disciplined by a male dominant disciplinarian, thus taking them in hand for strict discipline or erotic sensual spankings.

One of my regular female clients simply stated "I want this" meaning that women do want this type of service as long as all boundaries, limits and personal comfort zones are respected along with safety and security.

All my regular clients as well as women making new contact with me, then booking my spanking services have all given me the encouragement / support to continue providing a professional corporal punishment spanking discipline service.

Ladies who I regard as my regular female clientele aged between circa 25 to 75 and who I have asked for their views / thoughts include two serving magistrates, a GP doctor specialising in women's health, a psychotherapist, two counsellors one of whom mainly deals with female issues, a psychologist, three teachers, the headmistress of an exclusive all-girls' school, a solicitor specialising in criminal law, a barrister, two CEOS, a prominent politician, an accountant, a librarian, one lady who is the president of her Ladies' Circle / Tangent group and who is also the captain of her local golf club, as well as several other professional ladies and women who have now retired, thus giving me the assurances with confidence that I must be doing something right by continuing to offer / provide my spanking services.

I have even been booked by a British Oscar-winning actress when I was chauffeur-driven to see her when she was staying at the Dorchester in London and a well-known news-reader in my time, so the ladies do have one common denominator, which is that they are often ladies in positions of "power" or have assertive qualities, but they also desire to fulfill their individual spanking needs and desires with a professional male dominant disciplinarian.

I am aware that I do not need to justify why I offer / provide my spanking services, but in the current climate of sexual correctness with respect towards women, I felt compelled to include this section.

Women always want men to have respect for them in all situations or lifestyle scenarios, but there are many women who also wish to relinquish control, thus allowing the male to dominate them as they are relishing their submissive, subservient role.

Many women see this as totally acceptable as long as all activities are consensual leaving the women with equal control, even though they are being submissive to the male dominance if this makes sense.

Ladies booking my massage / spanking services can always stop the session or leave at any time and they always have some control over their boundaries / limits / safety and when a woman is ready to be spanked, disciplined or dominated, then she will always give me the signals that she is ready placing her absolute trust in me, so in this respect (pun intended!!) the ladies booking my spanking services always have a say in how they wish to be dominated, even if they are completely submitting to my control, will and dominant nature during the spanking session.

All my select services are completely consensual and as long as women feel safe and secure to explore / fulfil their innermost spanking needs, desires and fantasies with me with consensual informed consent, then I shall continue to provide a very discreet, confidential, professional spanking service for ladies and my discerning female clientele.

I still continue to be booked by many new ladies as well as my regular female clients who are seeking to book my professional spanking services on a regular basis and I remain as busy as ever.

Your Legal Consent

I always request that all my female clients give me full permission and prior legal consent to give a spanking and an administration of corporal punishment spanking discipline within all personal pre-arranged boundaries, limits and comfort zones by signing a legal consent form before you are to be spanked and before I give a spanking and administer corporal punishment discipline.

You can view the details and form if you visit the Consent link within the main menu / header section.

I apologise in advance if this section of my website seems so clinical, but I regret that I will be unable to provide my spanking services if you are unwilling to read and then subsequently sign the legal consent form, thus giving me your full permission to go ahead and give you a non-sexual spanking with the formal administration of corporal punishment spanking discipline or I give you an erotic sensual spanking of a sexual nature and all I require is your signature without you supplying any other personal details just to keep everything legal, professional and above board between us.

My own genuine true & real, private, personal experiences of receiving corporal punishment spanking discipline administered by mature ladies

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