I am often asked by ladies who make contact with me or by women who book my spanking services about my own interest in corporal punishment spanking discipline.
Although I am mainly dominant and I am a professional male disciplinarian who administers corporal punishment spanking discipline services, I did grow up in an age when the administration of corporal punishment spanking discipline was the "norm" in both the domestic home and at school.
I am not all all naturally submissive in any way, but if you read on, then my interest in corporal punishment and spanking discipline from a very early age will become clear and apparent.
If you read this section, you might even think that I am submissive with regard to spanking, but you will also derive that I had no choice but to go along with receiving the discipline when it was administered and I alway felt that my own experience of spankings were never gratuituous or abusive in any way whatsoever and in fact, corporal punishment was always very firm, but fair being very fairly administered and I always considered my own experiences to be appropriate and even lovingly or carefully administered with a true duty of care.
I have never once felt that my own natural dominance or dominant nature came from a deep-rooted psychological need to somehow "get back" at the ladies who amdinisttered corporal punishment in my formative years and I just seem to be naturally dominant, but also having a fascination or even fetish kink about being spanked and disciplined by mature women who like to administer corporal punishment as fantasy role-play or even as a sense of duty to maintain discipline.
My own interest and background with spanking stems from as far back as I can remember coming into consciousness and I find this psychological aspect fascinating as my own physical experience of actually receiving corporal punishment and spankings myself began later in my formative years.
I had always been aware of corporal punishment being administered in schools and then reading about it in fictional books / stories especially those composed by Enid Blyton in children's books or even how spanking was depicted and made reference to in comics.
I just remember being absolutely fascinated, intrigued, thrilled, "turned on" and even aroused with all these references to discipline in literature, although I was never, ever spanked at home by my parents.
I have often heard the same similar story from ladies who have made contact with me over the years who have also had the same subliminal thoughts about the administration of corporal punishment spanking discipline in their subconscious mind.
Although I am mainly dominant and was never, ever spanked at home, I did receive whackings, spankings and thrashings from a female family member / relative from between the age of 7 until my mid-teens.
I was also on the receiving end of corporal punishment which was administered by the headmistress and another female member of staff when I was at school between the age of 11 and 15.
I will not go into too much detail regarding my own experience of bending over to receive corporal punishment, but I will share some information to provide some enlightenment.
I must state for the record that my own experiences of receiving spanking discipline and formal administrations of corporal punishment were always very firm, but fair and well-deserved as I was and still am very naughty, cheeky and rebellious.
The family member was my great-aunt who was a lovely lady with strong Christian beliefs, traditional values and a true believer in the administration of corporal punishment for naughty boys or girls.
I am an only child so when my wanted some time alone to themselves or wanted to go on holiday, I would stay with her for a day or even a week.
I was quite naughty and cheeky with her so I was given fair warning that she would administer spanking discipline or if I was very naughty, a formal administration of corporal punishment.
I was spanked over her lap with firm hand-spankings, slippered over her lap with sound slipperings.
She would sometimes spank me over the bare bottom and she always whacked my bare bottom with her slipper.
She did once instruct me to bend over with my hands on my knees before her first slippering with six of the best, but after she had administered the first three whacks of her slipper I kept moving, so she stopped the spanking and gave the final three strokes with me bending over the side of her armchair to be slippered.
When I was older, I would have to bend over her arm chair in her lounge, she also sent me to wait in her bedroom and instruct me to bend over the side of her bed to wait in anticipation as she told me that she would follow me upstairs in a few minutes to discipline me.
I would hear her coming up the stairs and then enter her room as I lay bending over side of the bed waiting for her to administer corporal punishment with six spanks of her punishment slipper over my clothed or bare bottom depending on how naughty I had been.
I later realised that she had reserved a "special" slipper to use for corporal punishment which was kept in her drawer and which she only used to administer six of the best whacks in the privacy of her bedroom day or evening.
When I was in my mid-teens she would then send me to her reading room / study at the top of her large Victorian house where she would follow me up a few minutes later as a waited in anticipation for her to enter the room.
She would shut the door and I would have to bend over her chair for the slipper or cane where I would be caned or slippered with six of the best which was always administered over the bottom leaving my buttocks very red and sore afterwards after the caning and slipper spanking.
I did always deserve a good spanking, walloping, whacking, thrashing, beating with her slipper or getting the cane from her and it was always kept very private and a secret between us as she nor I ever told my parents about her spankings and it always remained a private punishment.
We always enjoyed such an intelligent, fair and respectful relationship and although her punishments were painful administered with firm hand-spanking or whacks with implements, I always felt that corporal punishment was administered in a very loving, professional way and there was never any animosity between us after the administration of corporal punishment.
Another familial spanking experience in a domestic setting happened with another great-aunt after I had gone to stay with her for a week when there was no one else available to look after me when I was in my mid-teens.
I think she must have known about my other spankings and administrations of corporal punishment if she had discussed my discipline and naughty, cheeky behaviour with her sister when I went to stay with her.
My other great-aunt was a Christian lady with very traditional values and views on life.
She lived on her own and we always enjoyed a fun relationship together when I saw her or occasionally stayed with her.
I was being rather cheeky with her one evening as we both sat in her lounge and I think that there had been a culmination of naughty cheekiness during this particular stay with her leading up to that one evening.
She kept her patience, but I could see that I might have pushed her too far with my insolence, so she then told me that it was about time that she taught me a lesson that I would not forget and that she was going to administer corrective corporal punishment.
She then sent me to my room telling me to change into my pyjamas as she was worried that I would not feel her whacks if she spanked me over my jeans.
She told me that she would be up in a few minutes to discipline me and that I should go to my room immediately to change and then she instructed me to go into her own private bedroom after changing and to wait for her whilst bending over the side of her bed.
The ritual had begun and I did so with the adrenaline coursing through my body as I changed into my pyjamas, then silently waited for her in her own room whilst bending over the side of the bed.
I could hear her footsteps coming up the stairs and watched as she entered the room and go to her wardrobe to take out her slipper, then she stood behind me holding her slipper ready to administer corporal punishment.
She informed me that she was going to spank me with her slipper and that she would administer six firm strokes / whacks with a good, sound slippering.
I was already wondering how hard she might spank or how firm her strokes would be given over my pyjama bottoms when she then told me that she would administer six of the best with the first three strokes given over my covered bottom and the final three to be administered across my bare buttocks.
She instructed me to prepare myself for punishment and to keep facing towards the front.
She was standing behind me when she gave the first three whacks and then she sat down beside me as I was bending over the bed to then slowly pull / take down my PJ bottoms to expose my bottom for last three whacks.
The punishment continued as she administered the final three whacks over my bare bottom and then told me that she was now satisfied that I had been disciplined and punished for my cheek and naughty behaviour with her.
She then stated that my bottom cheeks were very red and that I could stay in position for a few minutes to recover from her spanking, before saying that I could then go to the bathroom if I needed to use a sponge for soothing my bottom, then I had to go to my room for the rest of the evening.
She told me I could now expect an administration of corporal punishment again if I misbehaved again with her and that she might consider an administration of the cane with a caning in her office, but I was never caned by her in the end and only disciplined with her slipper when she gave a prolonged spanking with as many as twenty strokes over the clothed and bare buttocks on one other occasion.
I did attend a small, private, independent primary school between the ages of 7 to 11 and when I was ten years old I was told by my form mistress who kept me behind to see her privately after a morning class that the headmaster wanted to see me about my naughty, cheeky behavior after school and that she was to take me there in person at the last break time of the day.
This was the first time that I was going to receive discipline and being sent to see the headmaster.
I was feeling quite nervous when the other pupils had left and I went over to see her at her desk.
She then stood up and we both walked to the headmaster's private study.
She told me that he might administer corporal punishment and that I should prepare myself to be whacked.
We had heard stories about some of the boys being caned and rumors of canings being administered in his private study, but the pupils were uncertain about the actual facts or events and it seemed to be quite taboo at the time.
As we approached his study, I nervously wondered what might happen in the next few minutes.
To my complete surprise, the school secretary was also waiting outside his office and we all went together, but the most amazing surprise of all was to see the headmaster's wife sitting behind the desk waiting for us.
One other interesting factor is that the headmaster had two very attractive, pretty daughters aged about 14 and 16 at the time and both girls were also hovering around outside his office as I went in with my form-mistress and the secretary.
The boys had always been in awe of the headmaster's wife and she was a very attractive, lovely lady with a pleasing personality.
Even at that young age, I still found her to be quite a fascinating, mature, elegant lady.
She did not actually teach at the school and I do not remember her being addressed as the "headmistress", but she was always there most days as a charming presence in an administrative capacity or sometimes giving talks in morning assemblies.
The door was closed and remember feeling both nervous and confused as I was not expecting to see the headmaster's wife instead of the headmaster.
She then told us that the headmaster had been called away on another matter and that she was to administer corporal punishment.
The adrenaline was really coursing through my body at this point and I could hardly believe that this was about to happen with this very attractive lady who I had held in awe about to administer strict discipline.
She then confirmed that she was to going to discipline me with my form-mistress and the secretary staying there to witness the punishment.
I had often wondered about being caned and if she was going to cane me, then it would be my very first experience of receiving corporal punishment, but she went over to the cupboard by the side of the desk and took out a slipper, so I then knew that my punishment was going to be a slippering and that she was going to slipper me.
She instructed me to take off my blazer and put it on the desk and then she came round the side of the desk and told me to go over to the arm-chair in the corner of the study.
She followed me there with the other two ladies standing together by the desk.
I was then told to bend over the side of the armchair and to prepare myself for six whacks of the slipper and she then asked the secretary to record the punishment in the school punishment book as six of the best administered with the slipper.
I then waited as she delivered the first whack which was spanked hard over my buttocks and then she administered five more firm whacks.
As the school was situated in an old Victorian house, the study was oak-paneled which meant that the sound of slipper spanking and thrashing my bottom echoed and I was quite mindful that her two daughters would be able to hear each spank of her slipper as it thrashed over my aching buttocks.
When she had administered her final stroke, I stood up and faced all three ladies with both the school secretary and my form-mistress giving me a sympathetic smile as I was dismissed with the headmaster's wife telling me to behave in the future.
This was my only spanking and experience of corporal punishment at primary school and as I left her study, her two daughters who had been standing outside the door giggled telling me that they had heard each whack and that I must have been a very naughty boy to deserve a good whacking from their mother.
I also received corporal punishment at secondary school which was administered by the headmistress in her private study and once administered by the deputy headmistress when the headmistress was unavailable.
I was sent for three slipperings and I was caned twice over the buttocks.
I attended a small, independent, mixed, co-ed school and all my teachers or members of staff were female.
It was quite easy for a female teacher to send a naughty boy or girl to the headmistress to be privately disciplined in her office / study.
I was first sent by my history teacher after being very rude and cheeky to her, so the headmistress administered four whacks of the slipper as I bend over her chair.
My great-aunt would use a domestic, leather-soled slipper for spanking, but although people make reference to getting the slipper at school, it was actually a rubber-soled plimsoll which was used to spank the bottom.
The school secretary would sit at her desk which was adjacent to the headmistress's oak-panelled office / study and I would have to tell her that I had been sent there to see the headmistress for corporal punishment which was always embarrassing and especially as I was always quite dominant, but having no choice or say in the matter on these occasions.
The secretary was a mature lady and a similar age to the headmistress, so she would then make an internal phone call to the office to see if the headmistress was free and to tell her that a pupil had been sent to see her for an administration of corporal punishment.
On this occasion, she administered six of the best in private and the secretary would have heard each and every whack as I left her study clutching / rubbing my sore bottom as she would give me a knowing, sympathetic smile.
I was net taken to the study by a studious sixth-form girl who I had been very cheeky to and she told me that she was taking me to see the headmistress and that she was going to ask her to administer corporal punishment.
As we walked together to her office she told me that I need to learn some respect and that although she knew that an administration of corporal punishment would be very painful, it would teach me a lesson that I would not forget.
When we had both entered her study, I was shocked when the headmistress asked the sixth-former to stay and witness the whacking and I and to bend over for six of the best as she watched me receive my discipline.
My third spanking with her slipper was very interesting as I discover quite a young, attractive secretary working that day as a temp and I was embarrassed admitting that I had been sent for corporal punishment. It was even more embarrassing as I had to wait the headmistress's study with her sitting at her nearby desk as the headmistress was with someone.
I was sitting in silence until I could hear the familiar sound of the slipper spanking over the bottom through the door and after I had heard the administration of three whacks, a girl from the year above me came out after she had been slippered.
The secretary then phoned and I was duly summoned into study to receive my own thrashing with six of the best whacks knowing that the young secretary would hear each whack over my bottom.
I later had two canings and if a pupil was caned I found out that there had to be another teacher present to legally witness to the punishment and the secretary would be required to be present to both witness and record the administration of corporal punishment in the school punishment book.
I was sent to see the headmistress expecting another six whacks of the slipper, but the secretary this time told me to follow her into the office and as I did and to my horror, I saw one of the form mistresses also waiting in her study.
The other teacher was a very attractive, mature lady who did not actually teach any of my subjects, but I did know who she was of course from seeing her around the school and at assembly.
I must admit that I have always been in awe of my attractive, mature headmistress before and after receiving corporal punishment, but I had been in even more awe of the other lady teacher having admired her from afar.
I was told that as I had been slippered on three previous punishments, I was not going to get the cane as discipline and that the other teacher and secretary where there to witness as being caned was considered a more formal or sever punishment.
I wondered how much the caning would hurt more that the slipper as I bent over her chair and I was given six of the best which was even more fascinating having been witnessed by two other mature women.
To add to the intrigue, one of my teachers was stood outside the office as I was dismissed after being whacked and she was talking to a girl two years below me.
She tuned to face me and told me that she had been wondering who was in the office being caned and then enquired with empathy / sympathy if it had been a painful experience as she and the girl had heard my caning being administered.
The interesting twist in this account is that a few months later, the teacher had asked me privately if I would talk to her class of all female students who all privately attended her reading class including the same young girl that had been standing with her the day of my first caning and the subject they were discussing was corporal punishment, so I remember telling the teacher and eight girls about all my private experiences of receiving the discipline including those with my great-aunt.
I have also been told by several women who have booked my own spanking services that they remember female teachers debating and raising the subject of corporal punishment in their own time at school in front of boys and girls with one mature teacher of religious studies even reading account of factual birchings to her class and discussing being birched or a birching as well as spankings with the slipper or being caned.
Although I had been receiving discipline from my great-aunt before attending senior secondary school, I was still naturally nervous, yet intrigued by the formality and ritual surrounding traditional discipline administered at school.
I actually remember staying with my great-aunt after my very first caning at school and going straight to her home afterwards as I was caned at the end of the school day when everyone had gone home and telling her that I had my first caning over the bottom. I also remember that she seemed very interested in this fact and that she asked me to describe in detail how the caning had been administered, it was shortly after this experience that she began to use the cane for corporal punishment when I was particularly naughty.
It does seem that there are many women who are not only interested in receiving corporal punishment spanking discipline, but there are also many ladies who are also interested in the spanking and discipline of naughty boys too.
Corporal punishment was usually reserved for boys and male pupils when it was allowed to be administered in school and as I recall, it was banned in state school in 1989 and then later banned in private schools in 1995 and I have had many women who have booked my services or who have made contact with me to enquire about my services tell me that as they are of a certain age, that they have indeed been disciplined whilst at school by a male or female teacher as well as women telling me that they had be quite interested in the discipline of naughty boys and fascinated by witnessing corporal punishment being administered, listen to corporal punishment outside the head's study / office or by hearing boys discuss and talk about their punishments.
I remember a girl who I was very attracted to at school and who was two years above my own class standing outside the headmistress's office and being there as I came out of her study after my final caning which added to the intrigue.
I will always remember one memorable and very formal administration of corporal punishment which was actually administered by another elderly, mature lady in my formative years.
The lady who administered the punishment was a neighbour of my great-aunt and who lived in the house next door.
My great-aunt did have a long garden where I would play, but on thtis occasion I was kicking a tennis ball around her courtyard which was adjacent to her neighbours home.
There was a dividing wall with a wooden fence between the two houses and I manged to accidently kick the ball over the fence and heard a window smash.
I climbed up on the wall to see if anyone seemed to have heard the smash or if anyone was there at the scene of my crime, but after realising that my misdemeanor seemed to be going unoticed, I went over the wall to retrieve and wnet back into my great-aunt's home thinking that I have "got way" with it.
However, my feeling of well-being combined with apathy was to be short-lived and as I was sitting in my bedroom, I heard the front door bell ring.
I listened at the top of the stairs, but as it was a fairly large house, I could nolt distinguish the voices speaking or conversation.
I was then called down and summoned into the living-room to face my great-aunt and another quite mature lady who I must admit was very slim, tall and attractive for her age as I was only aged 16 at the time.
It transpired that the other lady wasthe neighbour and she had watched everything from her bedroom window including me kick the ball over the fence and me climbing over the wall to retrieve the ball.
I was silent and duly awaited my fate.
There were no raised voices from either lady and in fact both my great-aunt and headmistress never, ever shouted and always spoke in calm voice during the administration of corporal punishment when spanking was administered in a very firm, but fair manner and I always felt that I had deserved my spankings whenever they were given by either lady and I never, ever considered my discipline to be unfair, unjust, inappropriate or even abusive as this type of discipline was considered and deemed to be quite fair and normal when I was growing up.
The other lady was introduced as Patricia and she asked how I intended to pay for the damage which of course being only 16 at the time was not going to be an option, so my great-aunt turned to Patricia and asked her if there might be another alternative to having to pay for the window asking if she could pay for the damage herself to make some amends to the situation.
To my amazement, Patricia then stated that there was no need to pay for the window if another alternative punishment was given instead and she explained that she had been an ex-teacher and firm believer in the use of corporal punishment either sending pupils to the head for spankings or administering corporal punishment herself.
She also stated that if I had been in her own charge, that she would have given me a sound spanking or a more formal administration of corporal punishment with a slipper or cane for my misbehaviour that day.
My great-aunt agreed with her and she told Patricia that she did indeed use corporal punishment to discipline me and she had given spankings, slippering and a few canings when I had been naughty, but also stated that she now only used a slipper or the cane as opposed to hand spankings to correct me.
My great-aunt told Patricia that she would usually administer a whacking and take me to her room or office at the top of the house to thrash my bottom with ther other lady being asked to witness me being caned or slippered, however my great-aunt had hurt her wrist a few days earlier and she felt that her own punishment would not be effective and that Patricia might think that she was "going easy" on me.
Patricia said that she understood and the other option would be for her to administer corporal punishment with the slipper or cane in my great-aunts home with her permission / consent, but the problem was that my great-aunt was due to meet with her Bridge group later that morning and had to leave shortly.
So the decision was made that I would go over to see Patricia in the privacy of her own home in the next twenty minuted whilst she had time to prepare her own private room for the administration of corporal punishment.
My great-aunt was asked if she would like to witness the punishment, but she had no time to do so before having to leave for her Bridge group and class.
My great-aunt seemed totally happy that I would receive a very fair spanking from Patricia and sanctioned the discipline / punishment.
Patricia informed her that she would have her female friend who was staying with her for a few days witness the punishment, so I waited very nervously with anticipation until my great-aunt who was called Mary to go out.
I had about ten minutes alone in the house to contemplate my punishment wondering if it would be administered in the same style as my headmistress or great-aunt Mary.
I had been told by Patricia to change into my long school-trousers or something similar before going to her home to receive the spanking as she had stated to my great-aunt that the punishment would not be as affective be given over a pair of jeans.
As I changed, the feeling of adrenaline combined with anticipation and trepidation overcame me.
I left my great-aunt's home and walked to Patricia's home to knock on her door, then her friend opened the door and summoned me inside.
She told me that she was to witness Patricia giving me the whacks and that Patricia was waiting for us both in her private room / study.
I followed her up the stairs and the slience in the house was almost tangible, we both went into the study and Patricia shut the door.
Her friend stood to one side of an armchair and I was informed by Patricia that I was receive six of the best whacks with three strokes of the slipper and three spanks of her cane.
I was to be slippered and caned with corporal punishment which would be a sound slippering and caning over the clothed buttocks.
I was instructed to bend over a the punishment was duly administered across my bottom and it was fascinating to be punished and to receive such a formal, traditional administration of strict corporal punishment from another elegant, sophisticated, well-spoken mature lady aside from my aunt as well as being also witnessed by another elderly women in the same room.
I was then dismissed and Patricia walked with me to her front door telling me to behave myself in future or she may have to spank me again.
Another twist to the factual story and events is that I did become friends with Patrica after her administration of corporal punishment and I was in fact spanked, disciplined and punished by her in later years upto the age of 18 in private on several more occasions unknown to my great-Aunt Mary when I would ever feel the need to receive corporal punishment and even hand-spanking over my bare-bottom, but this is very private and another story which I have chosen not to share.
Another interesting session of discipline with my great-aunt was administered by her when I was staying with her and I had been quite cheeky and possibly a little too rude with a mature, elegantly dressed lady who was waiting next to me in a queue at one of the local shops.
I did not think much of this incident until a few hours later there was a ring at the door and to my amazement, the lady from the shop queue was standing in the doorway with my great-aunt opening the door to her.
It transpired that they were friends, she told Mary about my rudeness and cheekiness to her, so my great-aunt offered to appease and placate the situation by asking her friend if she would like me to receive corporal punishment.
Her friend repled that would be acceptable in the circumstances and then Mary asked her if she would like to witness the administration of discipline.
I was sent to my great-aunt's private room and after what seemed like an eternity of waiting, but probably only about two minutes had elapsed before both ladies followed me upstairs.
Once inside the room the door was closed and I was intructed by my great-aunt to bend over her arm-chair in the corner of her room for six firm, hard whacks / strokes of the slipper all witnessed by the other mature lady and I was was soundly slippered with a very traditional "school-type" six of the best and the other lady told my great-aunt that she was satisfied that I had received corporal punishment administered in a formal manner and that the whacks had been given in the same way that a headmistress would have administered strict discipline.
I was then told by my great-aunt that if I was ever rude to her friend again that she would administer a caning and that I would be caned in her room in the same manner with her friend witnessing the punishment.
Then to my absolute amazement, her friend stated that she would also administer corporal punishment herself if I was ever cheeky with her again or if my great-aunt was not available or unable to do so which really fascinated me at this time.
So sure enough, a few weeks later I saw the window of opportunity presented itself and knowing that my great-aunt had a bout of flu, I seized the opportunity to be punished by her friend who was called Jane with a random act of spontaneity.
I saw her at one of the local shops standing in the aisle, so I summoned up the courage to walk up to her and I pulled a face sticking out my tongue in a very daring, cheeky act of defiance to her.
I walked off and went back to my great-aunt's house waiting for the inevitable to happen.
The telephone then rang and I realised that it had been Jane calling to speak with my great-aunt, I did hear the full extent of the phone call, but it ended with my great-aunt inviting Jane over to her house.
After twenty minutes or so, I heard the door-bell ring and Jane was invited into the house.
I was then called downstairs from my room and my great-aunt who was streaming with cold told me that as I had not learned my lesson and had been cheeky to Jane again, that I could expect to receive corporal punishment, but that she was in no fit state to administer my discipline.
Jane who knew that my great-aunt had the flu then told my great-aunt that she had brought her own slipper with her and she opned her handbag and took it out.
Jane also remembered that my great-aunt had threatened to give me the cane if I was ever cheeky with her again and my great-aunt told her that if she was going to also administer a caning, then she kept her cane in the wardrobe in her private bedroom.
Jane then asked if there was another suitable room or space to administer my spanking as she was uncertain if she should give me the spanking in my great-anut's own personal room and my great-aunt replied that she could use her own private bedroom to administer the whacks as before.
As I was wearing a pair of jeans, Jane observed that my great-aunt had slippered me wearing my long school trousers with her previous punishment and that I might not feel the true effects of her discipline wearing jeans, so my great-aunt instructed me to go and put on my pyjama bottoms without keeping on my underwear and to then to come downstairs again.
When I returned, Jane asked my great-aunt if she was going to also come upstairs to her room to witness the punishment, but my great-aunt replied that she was feeling unwell wanting to stay seated in her favourite armchair in the loung and that she was happy for Jane to take me upstairs on her own to administer the spanking, so Jane then told me to go upstairs and she immediately followed behind me telling me that I was going to be disciplined in a firm, formal and traditional manner.
She shut the door and then to my surprise, she told me that she would start with a good, sound spanking, so she then sat on the edge of the bed and instructed me to bend over her lap to be spanked.
After she had spanked my buttocks with her hand, she then gave me a slippering and as I was squirming slightly over her lap, I could feel my pyjama trousers coming down exposing my bare bottom with the momentum of her spanks, whacks and punishment, so some of her spanks and strokes of the slipper were actually "accidently" administer over my naked buttocks, but my genitalia was always covered at the front.
After this discipline, she then instructed me to stand up and as I did so, I also pulled up my trousers to cover my bottom hoping that I had not leaked any pre-cum with any traces of semen or that there was any accidential emission of my spunk.
I was then told by Jane to bend over the side of the armchair for three whacks of her slipper and then three stokes of the cane which was one of the most the most amazing slippering and caning sessions that I had ever experienced at the hands of a lovely, stunning mature lady in her disciplinry mode.
After I had been slippered and caned by her, we retuned downstairs and Jane told my great-aunt that she was satisfied that I had now received a good spanking session and strict discipline with administered corporal punishment.
Jane then gave me a knowing smile which I shall never forget and left the house.
Although the discipline had been totally sanctioned and appropriate, I have always wondered what Jane got out of the experience herself or any of the other mature ladies that administered my own personal discipline which was always appropriately given in very caring, loving manner with a duty-of-care in "loving" circumstances with none of the ladies ever shouting or raising their voices keeping very cool, calm and collected at all times.
Most of my discipline has been administered by mature, elderly ladies when I was younger and in my formative years, so I have never had the chance opportunity to ask any of them in the years that followed as they are no longer with us.
My discipline was always very secretive and private between myself and the mature ladies which was so very intriguing even at a young age, but I must stress that all my spankings were very appropriate and perhasp I was not always the innocent party as I sometimes physically and psychologically provoked / pushed each lady into administering corporal punishment and spanking discipline on a sub-conscious, subliminal level to achieve my own ends with arousal.
I have been offering / providing a professional spanking service for women since 2004, but in truth, I had been meeting women of all ages who wanted to receive non-sexual corporal punishment spanking discipline and / or erotic sensual sexual spankings since I was around the age of 23 having met them via private adverts placed in the newspaper or online.
I was always very lucky to have met girlfriends in my teens up the age of circa 23 who were actually interested in different aspects of corporal punishment and spanking, so I did used to spank several girlfriends froma young age in my life, but I would never, ever allow a girlfriend to administer corporal punishment as my only interest in ever receiving corporal punishment spanking discipline would be from mature, older, elegant, sophisticated, well-spoken ladies and never from younger ladies or an actual girlfriend.
One young lady who is an ex-public school girl booked to visit her for massage at her home in SW London in circa 2018 and after perusing my website, she decided thatt she would like to experience a bare bottom spanking.
We discussed spanking discipline in schools and she thought that is was from a bygone Victorian era that ended in the 1900's, however many younger women who make contact with me have heard of corporal punishment and spankings when speaking with their parents or grand-parents.
I remember a time before the internet and when everying is so freely available online, that I secretly ordered a spanking magazine by mail-order and when it arrived, I had the most intense masturbation sessions culminating in explosive orgasmic ejaculations of spunk after reading the fictional spanking stories and to this day I much prefer to read factual accounts of real-life discipline than reading fictional spanking stories always shooting much more semen than usual enjoying the intensity of the magical moment.
I think that it is quite a popular mis-conception that men think women prefer reading about erotic porn as opposed to watching it as I know for a fact that many women do watch porn on their own or at the request of their male partners.
Many women perusing my own massage and spanking websites also admit that they all enjoy watching my massage / spanking videos.
Although, I must admit that I do not sit there watching my own videos as much as some might think and I often rely on my memory of the sessions.
I would probably prefer reading about such things as opposed to watching them and those "in the know" as it were do acknowledge that sexual fantasy thoughts begin in the mind and evolve in the human psyche.
I am sure that some women and even some men who are visiting my website would not believe that aforementioned spanking accounts actualy took place and I absolutely assure my readers that they did.
I once met a hypnotherapist / psychologist called Jenny who was probably aged in her early thirties around 2007 or 2008 when she made contact with me via my own spanking website and who was very interested in my corporal punishment spanking services for women.
She did bend over my lap for a few bare bottom spankings, but when we ended up in bed after one late night out we both awoke in the morning and she quizzed me about receiving my own spankings and as I shared more and more information with her, she entered into a "role-play" scenario with me as the six-form girl who had taken me to see the headmistress and I remember being SO incredibly aroused / turned on as she sucked and stroked me as I was talking for at least twenty minutes before I had the most amazing climax with her.
The next account still surprises me and one I will always remember for a lifetime.
I had been spanked with the slipper at school and I had been sent to see the headmistress during the school day, however the secretary had told me that the headmistress was not going to be free or available to administer my punishment until the very end of the school day.
That afternoon we had had a swimming session and unfortunately as we were messing about getting dressed / changed, my underwear had become soaked with water from the showers, so I had to just wear my long school trousers without wearing any underwear underneath.
This then meant that the administration of six whacks was virtually spanked over my bare bottom as the grey flannel trousers were thin and did not provide much protection over the bottom.
It just so happened that although I was actually staying at my parent's home, they had gone away for a few days and I was being looked after by a distant female relative who was probably in her mid-fifties when I was 15.
When I arrived home, I immediately went upstairs and undressed in my room, I then went to the bathroom to inspect the damage and to look at my very red, sore bottom which I bathed in cold water.
When I went into the lounge to sit with her, I was probably becoming quite uncomfortable sitting on my spanked bottom and moving or fidgeting.
She then asked if I was OK and I admitted to her that I had been slippered just before returning home, so I lived quite close to the school, the punishment was still fresh and only recently administered.
We then openly discussed how I had been punished and looking back on this one-off moment, I do think that she was also very intrigued with the spanking herself as she asked me so many questions.
I was still feeling sore when I went to bed that evening and just as I had changed into my pyjamas in the privacy of my own bedroom, she knocked at the door and asked if she could come in and speak with me.
She asked if my bottom was still sore and told me that she was a doctor which I did not know or realise as she was quite a distant relative.
She was a very attractive, slim lady with large breasts and to my surprise she was only wearing her night-dress covered with her dressing gown / robe.
She came into my room and shut the door behind her asking me if my bottom was still painful.
I answered yes and she told me that she had some aloe vera gel which she used as a soothing ointment on her own skin and wondered if it might soothe my own bare bottom.
She said that she could leave it there for me or would I like her to inspect my bottom and apply the lotion herself.
I was stiill amazed that this scenario was unfolding and I just naturally replied that it might be easier if she helped me.
She sat on the edge of my bed and asked me to come over to her then turn around.
She then lowered my pyjama bottoms telling me that my bottom did look very sore and she would apply the lotion to help soothe.
As soon as she started to massage my bare buttocks with her soothing lotion, I became fully aroused, turned on and erect.
I remember turning 45 degrees so she could still massage the buttocks, but see my exposed long powerful erection too.
She asked if it was helping soothe my bottom and I just gasped yes, telling her it felt much better.
"I can see you are having a certain reaction and shall I continue to massage your bottom?"
"Yes please do and it is really, really helping!"
Within seconds I ejaculated so much spunk with an explosive ejaculation of hot sperm and to my amazement, I realised that I had splattered her robe in several spurts of spunk and that my sperm was dripping down her top half.
"Please do not worry or feel any embarrassment as I am a doctor with many years of experience and I realise that your ejaculation of spunk was just a natural release and reaction to me stroking your spanked bottom, so we will just keep this a secret between us and your semen will just wash out of my clothing"
I was amazed and thrilled that she had used the word "spunk" which had always been a buzz word for me and still is.
I was also pleasantly shocked, amazed, surprised and secretly thrilled that this event had even happened in the first place.
I know what some of the mature ladies were thinking at the time or after the actual events when I spoke with them in hindsight, but it is also a mystery what some of the other ladies were thinking in the aforementioned scenarios.
I always seemed to have had a fascination regarding corporal punishment from a very early age, despite the fact that I was never spanked at home and I sometimes wonder if the thought about receiving spankings had stayed in my subliminal subconscious mind after reading about it in books or literature and possibly seeing scenes in television or film at an early stage if my life. so I shall leave this for the psychologists and psychosexual therapists to work this one out.
I am not necessarily a believer in past lives or past-life regression, but I do sometimes wonder about it with my own connection to corporal punishment as I had never received it up to the time of my first session of corporal punishment at school, but I had often thought about it up to that point in time.
I am actually a member of MENSA the high intelligence organisation, but I did need some extra help with mathematics at one point in my teens, so my mother arranged for me to have some private tuition from a maths tutor in her own home.
We I first met her I was astonished as she was totally not what I was expecting at all and far from being an old spinster and frumpy maths teacher, she was and probably still is a very attractive, stunning, yet mature lady and I found her to be a very vivacious, pretty and sexy lady.
We met several times and I will always remember her for having a great personality along with pretty looks and a stunning figure.
I once went to see her for some private maths tuition after being caned by my headmistress at the very end of the school day and as I was feeling quite sore, she asked if I had hurt myself or if I was in some pain or discomfort, to which I replied that I had been given a caning that afternoon in school.
She was very sympathetic and we stopped the lesson to discuss the punishment and spanking, so I do always remember being very inquisitive and interested asking me quite a few questions about how it had been administered and how I had felt before, during and after the whacking.
We also discussed more details about corporal punishment and spanking discipline when she told me that she was quite a believer in the administration of corporal punishment as discipline and had sent several pupils to be disciplined at her own school if they had misbehaved with her or had spanked her own child for misbaving and I only wish that she had done the same with me.
Looking back and reflecting upon this intriguing conversation, I do often wish that I had asked her to apply some lotion or even to have explored discipline with her as I felt that she had been interested in both administering and receiving corporal punishment, but I shall never know.
I also wish that she had perhaps administered a good spanking and six of the best with corporal punishment when I had been flirting with her or cheeky with her.
We also discussed corporal punishment on other occasions which I found quite fascinatiing and I sometimes wish that she had been there to comfort me after a spanking when soothing my bare bottom and perhaps giving me masturbation or even sucking me off to take my mind off the pain and discomfort of the whacks.
She once went on holiday and when she returned, she asked if I would like to see her holiday snaps (photographs), so she showed me her pictures that were in a folder or cardboard pouch as photographs were hard-copy back in thoses days and had to be developed.
As she stared to show me the images, she suddenly stated that some were a bit "rude" remembering just in time before she took those particular the photographs out and that she would have to censor some of the images and that she could only show me a selection of her images.
Late during our hourly session of private tuition, her phone started to ring and she went out of the room to answer it and thinking that she might be away from the room for a few minutes, I thought that I would take a "sneak peak" at all the photographs that she had left in the pouch on her desk and to my amazement, the "rude" images that she had referred to had been taken of herself when she was sunbathing topless on the beach and to this day, I always fantasise about her stunning figure, sexy body and beautiful bare boobs as she had perfect breasts.
I was so tempted to stroke my cock, but thought that she might catch me masturbating when she returned and I now often think about what might have happened if she had returned to find me masturbating over her sexy images and would she have told me that it was fine and that she would help me continue my masturbation and self-pleasure by taking off her top and bra to then start stroking my long, hard, erect cock with her own hand until I ejaculated my spunk with spurts of sperm over her hand, arm and splattering her bare boobs with my hot semen.
I must admit that I have often fantasised about my private maths teacher always enjoying being with her during the tutorials and still fantasise about her to this very day, but I must also state for the record that she was always very professional and there was never anythin inappropriate during our private tuition lessons, so I guess that as she had left the room in a hurry to answer her telephone, she just forgot to take the photographs with her, but I still think that she had a personal interest in corporal punishment and spanking though after some of our very open, honest and candid conversations.
I do also think about one particular girlfriend who I dated between the ages of 16 to 18 and upon reflection and due to some of the conversations that we had at the time, it would seem that she also had quite an interest in corporal punishment, and I only ever gave her one playful spanking.
I only began to spank my girlfriends at the age of 18 and I have spanked quite a few girlfriends and lady friends in my private, personal life, but I would have really liked to have explored further with this one particular ex-girlfriend in the past.
I have often received "proper" and genuine, non-sexual massage therapy treatments over the years and some have been given as holistic therapeutic massage by female holistic therapists and some have been more relaxing full-body massage therapy treatments for pure relaxation.
I always remember booking a massage with an osteopath when I was 25 and the female therapist told me that she was 38 years of age at the time.
I arrived for my appointment booking one morning at her private home-based clinic and immediately found her to be a very attractive lady and we immediately developed an instant rapport with our initial communication.
After our initial greeting and going through the reasons why I was seeking massage, she then left me alone for a few minutes to undress and to prepare myself by lying face-down on her massage therapy table.
She then returned to begin my treatment and I was really enjoying her style of massage finding it to be very beneficial; and therapeutic.
She then began to give me what is known as a "cupping" massage over the tops of my thighs and buttocks which were covered with a towel during the first treatment which I found fascinating and slightly arousing, sensual combined with erotic.
Towards the end of the massage, she changed from giving a therapeutic massage to a more holistic, relaxing style of full-body massage.
We then continued to speak and develop a further rapport.
When I was dressed again, she asked if I would like to have a cup of tea with her which I agreed to and we sat chatting for twenty minutes or so.
It was just when I was preparing to leave after my first appointment with her that she told me that she imagined I could be a very cheeky, charming character and that I probably deserved a good spanking which completely surprised me and I left thinking about what she had said with the thoughts resonating in my mind.
I subsequently made another appointment with her and as we went through the same treatment as before, I kept thinking about her "cupping" style of massage which was using the side of the hands to go up and down in a rhythmic motion over certain parts of the body and quite often the bottom / buttocks.
When we were getting close to her doing this, I cheekily, yet tentatively and cautiously asked her if she would mind if we removed the towel that was covering my bottom area bearing in mind that she was a genuine, fully-qualified and respectable holistic therapist who did not give or offer any sexual forms of massage therapy.
She smiled and told me that my request to remove the towel would be fine and added that she would never usually do this with a male client, but felt that although we had only met once before, she trusted me and to keep my nudity during her massage a secret between us which of course I agreed to.
She began the cupping and I once again found it to be the most incredible, sensual experience, so I then had the courage to ask if she would use the palm of her hands over my bare bottom.
She stopped and smiled again telling me that this request would be more like a spanking, so I turned to look her in the eyes and replied that you did tell me that I perhaps deserved a good spanking when I left last time.
She told me that I was very cheeky and to turn round again facing down on the massage therapy couch / table.
I was not sure what she was going to do next, but then she started to give me a good spanking with the palm of her hand over my bare bottom which found to be just amazing, erotic and very sensual.
After a good minute of spanking with her hand over my bare bottom, she then stated that her hand was beginning to smart and thatt she had other massage appointments that day needing her hand to be functional, so she then asked me to just wait for her for a minute whilst she went out of the room.
She returned a few moments later holding a slipper and told me that she would prefer to administer the spanking using her slipper, so I was then slippered lying face down on her couch, after which I bent over the side of the couch as she continued to administer corporal punishment with a good, sound slippering.
We then became personal friends as well as continuing with massage on a professional level.
She would then very privately give me hand-relief after my massage / spanking sessions as we went along which was always a very private, discreet and confidential arrangement between us with her swearing me to secrecy.
I also administered several sessions of corporal punishment over her own bottom ranging from hand-spanking to discipline with implements.
I could barely believe this most amazing experience and we continued to meet with similar scenarios over the next few months until I moved out of her area.
It was made even more arousing and interesting as she was a very respectable lady as well as being a very professional holistic therapist, so this intriguing dynamic was made even more exciting and secret.
I also met another genuine female therapist when was in my 30's and she was 58 years of age at the time who always administered non-sexual corporal punishment spanking discipline and we discovered a mutual interest in spanking after my very first phone call with her and after another immediate rapport with a female therapist, I felt that I was able to be very open, candid and honest with her, so we spoke at length after my initial point of contact .
She told me that she would not be able to give any form of sexual massage, but agreed to give me a genuine, holistic therapeutic and relaxing massage therapy treatment after which she would then administer non-sexual, traditional corporal punishment with six of the best strokes / whacks using implements in a formal setting which I was more than happy with at the time.
I then used to see her on a regualar basis for a formal, traditional session of corporal punishment.
I always remember meeting another mature, very attractive mature female massage therapist about twenty years ago who was a very genuine, straight holistic therapist who also administered corporal punishment spanking discipline for me.
I must state that I have always had total respect for genuine therapists with observing personal / professional boundaries, limits and comfort zones, but I have just been very lucky and I have found it a thrill to also receive spankings from them to as well as other more intimate, private sexual fun.
I must stress and emphsise that I would NOT advocate asking and never advise or recommend ever asking a regular holistic female therapist or any other type of therapist to administer corporal punishment spanking discipline or erotic sensual spankings "out-of-the-blue" as it were as this would most likely cause offence, embarrassment making the situation uncomfortable and in my case, I have just been very fortunate, lucky and enterprising enough to have met similar kindred spirits who have perhaps had similar interests to my own or who have been interested or more amenable with understanding empathy and who have just happened to be professional holistic therapists and that I have had a great rapport and then subsequently a deeper friendship with such ladies in the past and present.
I must admit that I may have manipulated and engineered the situatation towards fantasy fulfillment, but in my case, all the therapists / ladies have all been very forthcoming in their own right and have all been totally at ease and completely comfortable with going a step further than they would ususally do with clients or with private exchange therapy swaps.
I have been very lucky to have met such wonderful mature ladies in my life over the years and there have been a few other women who have kindly administered traditional, non-sexual corporal punishment spanking discipline or erotic sensual sexual spanking discipline in my life over the years, but I thought that I would share my massage and spanking experiences.
I have SO many other experiences that I can share with ladies and I will tell more when we speak on the telephone as opposed to email exchanges.
I am sometimes asked by women if I had an erection during any of my own spankings when receiving corporal punishment or if I experienced an ejaculation of spunk or a release of semen with my sperm spurting out as I was being spanked and I did I stroke myself afterward with self-pleasure masturbation, so I will leave this you your imagination.
I have too much respect to just go ahead and ask a genuine female therapist to do this with me, but I have always seemed to have formed a "friendship" and good rapport with the therapists that I have been lucky enough to meet always keeping within personal and professional boundaries, limits and comfort zones and of course, it has always been a very private, discreet, confidential, secret arrangement between the two of us.
I have also exchanged spankings with a selection of my more mature female clients who have initially booked my own professional spanking services including an English teacher, a doctor, a lawyer, a magistrate, a counsellor / psychotherapist and even a reverend / academic which was a very interesting dynamic for me as well as several other ladies with varying vocations.
I was once booked to provide mobile, visiting massage for a mature, elderly lady aged in her 80's in the privacy of her own home and although I do offer a discount for ladies over the age of 65, she asked me if she could do anything for me in exchange for massage.
I thought about this when we spoke on the phone and it was then that I then brought up the subject of corporal punishment spanking discipline wth her.
I told her about my some of my own previous experiences asking her if she might be willing to administer non-sexual corporal punishment, so she then asked me to give her a call the next day as she wanted to think about the exchange request.
I duly called her the next morning and she told me that she would be prepared to administer corporal punishment with her slipper and a garden cane as well as a possible spanking over her lap in exchange for my massage if she could first have a friend to witness the administration of discipline.
I could scarcely believe my luck at the prospect of being disciplined by her as well as having another mature lady witness the administration of corporal punishment.
I then made arrangements to meet her for a initial coffee and chat to enable us to get to know one another as well as also meeting her friend who would be there to witness the spankings.
I met them both for a coffee and a lovely chat after which we then agreed to meet again the next day.
I knoecked on her door and her frriend let me in and then took me upstairs where my clients was waiting in her own private reading room / office study.
She then administered six strokes of the slipper and six of the best whacks of her cane with her friend witnessing the administration of corporal punishment.
Her friend then asked if she should leave us alone for the massage and my client told her that would be fine.
We went to her bedroom and she gave me a good sound spanking with both her hand and slipper with me bending over her lap before she then undressed for me to give her a non-sexual, genuine, holistic therapeutic and relaxing massage therapy treatment.
I ended seeing her on a regular basis for the private arrangement with her friend witnessing the administration of corporal punishment for the first few spanking sessions and then on her own with the exchange arrangement for another few years afterwards.
I was also spanked, slippered and caned by her friend on one memorable occasion too when my client was unable to administer a spanking, slippering and caning as her hand / arm was hurting one day and it was interesting to be spanked, slippered and caned by another lady with my mature female client watching, supervising and advising her.
I did actually make another private arrangement with the other mature lady friend to receive corporal punishment too as my client eventually went to live with her immediate family to receive care as she grew older in years.
I did once engage in conversation with a mature Christian lady / Christian volunteer aged in her late 60's back in circa 2010 when she was giving out leaflets for her local church in a shopping centre in SW London.
I was admittedly quite intrigued and initially attracted by her looks and slim figure, so I stopped and we spoke for about 15 miniutes and she told me that if I ever wanted to speak with her in private, then I could have her own private, personal home number to call her.
I was also intrigued with her intellect and articulate, eleoquent conversation in combination with a her alluring, well-spoken and educated voice.
After a few days, I was really curious, so I then decided to call her and it was it that very first, initial telephone conversation that we began to discuss my interest in corporal punishment.
We then made arrangements to meet again at her own home as she lived alone and I went to see her the following day late one morning.
She invited me in and we sat in her lounge discussing various subjects which then culminated in us discussing various aspects of corporal punishment and spanking discipline in intimate detail witha very open and honest conversation.
She asked me about all my own personal experiences to date and she discussed her own ideas and personal, private thoughts regarding corporal punishment spanking discipline with me in complete confidence.
It was then that she asked if I still felt the need to receive discipline or had anyone at the time who was able to administer for me.
At this time, I was not involved in receiving any discipline from a mature lady and that in all honesty, I missed having a mature lady to see for corporal punishment, so she smiled and stated that if I would like her to administer corporal punishment in a very private setting within her own home, then she would perhaps be prepared to think about it and that I should call her again the following day.
I telephoned her the next morning and she told me that she had thought about the administration of discipline and she would be happy for me to go and see her on a regular basis to receive her administrations of corporal punishment.
We discussed the arrangement along with rules, boundaries, limits and comfort zones and in doing so, she stated that discipline was to be non-sexual and that she would prefer to to use the cane, which was fine with me as I did not wish to be caned or to bend over for a caning at that that particualr time in my life, but she would be happy to use the slipper and I was totally in agreement with her administering a slippering and to go and see her to be slippered on a regular basis.
The first of her punishments was going to see her one mid-morning and we sat and had a coffee together before she then administered six whacks of her slipper with me bending over her armchair and then we sat down again to talk about my feelings about bending over to receive her discipline and the punishment.
My subsequent visits to see her lasted another four months and I would be invited to see her very two weeks which was just perfect and absolutely amazing at the time.
The scenario would be very similar to the first time, but she would sometimes instruct me to go up to her private study / reading room to administer corporal punishment with me bending over her chair or arm-chair as well as administering discipline in her lounge with the curtains drawn shut to maintain the privacy of the spankings.
As we went along to develop a deeper friendship with trust and a good rapport, the boundaries and limits did change somewhat and she would then also take me up to her private bedroom for bare-bottom spankings administered with her hand and her slipper which I shall always remember with fondness and I was equally attracted / fascinated with the formality of her discipline and administrations of non-sexual corporal punishment as well as her more intimate, erotic sensual spankings which would always result in an intense ejaculation of spunk.
Sometimes the privacy, secrecy and formal administration of spanking discipline combined with the ritual associated with traditional corporal punishment and the anticipation with adrenaline rush of being told that you are going to receive spanking discipline can be just as exciting as an erotic sensual spanking or the eroticism of spankings.
I must admit that I have always found the ritual, build-up and adrenaline rush associated associated with non-sexual traditional corporal punishment spanking discipline to be such an intense, powerful thrill and just as stimulating as an intimate, erotic, sensual, sexy, kinky spanking session and the physical administration of spanking and corporal punishment itself.
Looking back in reflection and reflecting upon my own recollections with fond memories, I often think that was deliberately, subliminanlly and sub-consciously naughty or cheeky on purpose to orchestrate and provoke the ladies in the my childhood to give me a good spanking and administration of corporal punishment, but I sometimes did not have a say in the matter and the discipline was actually given as a matter of fact.
I have also been told by many of the more mature women who book my professional spanking services that I administer very real, realistic, authentic administrations of corporal punishment and now you know why.
Spanking and being disciplined can begin the mind with a sublime, subliminal, subconscious, physiological thought pattern / process associated with excitement / anticipation coupled with the adrenaline endorphin rush release before, during and after the physical administration of corporal punishment for both men and women.
An Amazing True Coincidence
Believe it or not, I was booked by a lady in 2005 who had actually been employed as a secretary at my old school, but not when I was a pupil there and I could simply not believe it when she told me that she had worked there or when she told me about her own experiences of dealing with, listening to and witnessing corporal punishment spanking being administered during our initial telephone conversations before arranging to meet for her own spanking sessions.
The world is indeed a small place!!
I do if fact sometimes wonder if any of my ex-girlfriends, former teachers or any other ladies that have known me throughout my entire life from the past and present have ever visited and perused my website out of interest in connection with corporal punishment spanking discipline or erotic sensual spanking, only to discover that they recognise me and used to know me realising who I am.